Updates – Providing the Lane for the Memories

Just a quick update on this blog. I found some old photos of several familiar places in Duquesne that I thought you’d enjoy. In the header of the blog is Duquesne City Bank, the rounded facade of the building located at the corner of Second and Grant, and First Street showing Woody’s Drug Store, The Plaza Theater and Krogers that eventually became Karen’s Shoe Store. Also, the bricks in the background you see are a photo of the bricks that line the streets of Duquesne. I took the picture of the bricks in front of the Post Office on First Street. People looked at me like I was crazy. Hmmmm… I wonder!

Enjoy your walk down the bricked Memory Lane

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Duquesne’s Dining Delights

I have been a retail manager for over 35 years. From my humble beginnings, I have been privileged to work for many large companies throughout my career thus far. My first “assignment” was folding donut boxes at Bon Bon Bakery. Bon Bon was in the then NEW Kopriver’s Shopping just past the Duquesne/West Mifflin line where Kennedy Ave in Duquesne becomes Texas Avenue in West Mifflin. (I was never able to understand the need to change the name.)

In addition to the brand new Kroger’s, the other stores that I remember were Sun Drugs, located right on the corner, Econ-o-wash Laundromat, Bon Bon Bakery, Hilltop Lounge and Peter Pan Cleaners. Since I grew up right across the street, I had plenty of time to commit the line-up to memory.

My friends and I used to “camp out” in Dr. Brown’s yard at the end of Thomas Street. Donnie was his son, and we had the world on a string! His backyard was directly across from Kroger’s, so we were able to watch what went on once the store closed for the night. We came to discover that delivery trucks began arriving just about dawn every morning. Although we tried to sleep, it seems that we were always awake when the Kroger trucks arrived. Once we got brave enough, we would make our way over to watch them unload. Always wearing our best “aren’t these a great bunch of kids” look, we were able to score at least a box of powdered sugar donuts, just for being cute. On good mornings, we walked away with all kinds of goodies! In retrospect, I’m sure that is where my donut addiction began. Damn those drivers!

As I was saying, from my very first non-paying retail job at the bakery, I have had  the opportunity to live in several major cities including Monterey, California; Dayton, Ohio; Chicago, Illinois; Cincinnati, Ohio; Columbia, South Carolina; Atlanta, Georgia; Birmingham, Alabama and Hagerstown, Maryland. I traveled extensively to New York City throughout my career as well. In each city, I was exposed to local cuisine and hundreds of choices in restaurants. You name it, they had a place to eat it. Throughout all of my relocations however, there was never any food or restaurant that was more comforting than those around Duquesne.

As a hunky, fine dining wasn’t on our agenda nor in our area. To find that, one had to travel to Pittsburgh. I grew up with daily family meals. Dad was always home by 5, except for the occasional stops at the GBU or the Cro Club. Mom always had dinner ready, and we always sat down as a family to eat. On those very rare occasions that we would get take-out or go out to eat, we were completely satisfied with the menus and offerings of the food around the town.

We didn’t have a lot of choices for dining in those days. The concept of fast food restaurants wasn’t around in those days. The Colonel, Ronald and Wendy hadn’t made their appearance as of yet, and we weren’t having to choose ambiguous chicken nuggets over  lukewarm chili. Our choices were narrow, but we never seemed to tire of them. I suppose that’s what happens when places offer decent food.

I think one of my favorites was Huckster’s Bar on Crawford Ave. Dad would always bring us “Huckster Burgers” and French fries on take out days. The burgers were huge and just dripping with cheese, grease and cholesterol! YUM!! Hucksters had a sit down section for eating, but my dad preferred to bring the food back to the house to eat. I thought at the time that it was because he just loved being with us so much. However, I think it may have been that he didn’t want Mom watching how many shots and beers he drank while waiting for the order!

It goes without saying that even though it was located in West Mifflin, there was, and still is, only one place to go for hot dogs, JIM’S!! Although it is officially known as Jim’s Drive-In, there is really only one thing people would go to Jim’s to get. The tastiest hot dogs with this remarkable sauce and onions were THE item of choice. Jim’s is still very popular, and in fact, has a fan page on Facebook, http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=61355354857#!/group.php?gid=61355354857&v=info! As I grew up, my parents gave into the temptation for takeout at Jim’s only on an occasional basis. After all, they were located ALL the way up on Skyline Drive, which was like the other side of the universe to a Duquesne hunky. By the way, they are actually selling the bottled sauce at the restaurant as well as a lot of the grocery stores around the area.

Another spot that I remember was Irene’s Pizza which was located on Grant Ave near 7th Street. I nurtured by love for pizza at Irene’s. The pizza wasn’t the normal creation that you see in pizza joints these days. The actual pizza pie was square, and the slices were about 5 or 6 inch square. I remember that the cheese they used was different from what you get today. It was so much tastier and I would swear that it was home made. We used to fight for the end pieces since the crust was so crispy. You really were privileged to score one of the corners! It was just like getting that corner piece from a pan of brownies. When we stayed at my Aunt Mary’s, we were always ordering Irene’s. Aunt Mary said she hated pizza. The smell bothered her, she said. (This coming from a woman who would fry up a pan of halušky in a heartbeat. And after all, you know there’s nothing as pleasant as the smell of cooking cabbage! ) Whenever we got the pizza, Aunt Mary would beg us for the crusts and we’d reluctantly oblige much to our chagrin.

Whenever a special treat was in order, my family would venture out of Duquesne and into the big leagues of McKeesport. There was only one place that we went, and that was Eat-‘n-Park. I’ve often wondered how one eats before one parks, but none the less, we loved the Big Boy! It was only on rare occasion that we would enjoy the luxury of actual restaurant dining. I remember how excited we got when we crossed the Duquesne-McKeesport Bridge and head down Lysle Blvd. The Golden Arches and Colonel Sanders didn’t exist in those days, so a date with the family was a very special treat. Although the food was very good, it honestly wasn’t any better than Mom would normally prepare. For her however, it was like manna from heaven, only because she didn’t have to cook it, serve it and do the dishes. Oh, the luxuries of life in Duquesne……..

Now that I’ve gotten myself hungry, I’ve got to run for now….. Ooooh, maybe there’s some leftover poppyseed rolls……

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One of Duquesne’s Icons – A Cultural Playground

“The loss of valued places diminishes us all, and the most unnecessary losses, the most indefensible, result from ignorance.”
English Heritage 2002
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I recently had the opportunity to visit my old stomping grounds in Duquesne. I have been fortunate to be able to visit the area once or twice a year since I moved away back in 1972. The past few years have been an exception however. As is often the case, “issues” creep up that cause unexpected changes and cancelled plans. My regular visit schedule somehow was put on hold, so it had been a number of years since I had last been to visit my remaining family in the Duquesne area.

The drive from my home in Maryland to Duquesne takes about 8 hours. By the time I roll into Duquesne, I am usually quite road weary and ready to kick back at one of my relative’s homes. For some reason, my trip back to my hometown in December felt differently. I had arrived via the same route as always. Once I turned off of westbound Rt. 30 at Lincoln Way toward White Oak, it felt like “home.” The sights and names as I head to Duquesne bring back great memories. I have a cadence of mental images of what would have been in view as I travel along Lincoln Way. In my youth, the world didn’t extend too far beyond the borders of White Oak. Even as a teenager, The White Elephant was about the furthest I’d travel.

I pass by the corner of Jacks Run Rd (Rt 48) where I vaguely remember Rainbow Gardens Amusement Park. I don’t think my parents ever took us there. There was never a need. After all, we had Kennywood!!  Perhaps the most memorable landmark along the way was at the end of Lincoln Way where it dead ended into Rt 148, aka 5th Avenue Extension. There is a mystical and magical store that exists there to this day. Not unlike the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, stands Blooms Cut Rate!

Since my Aunt Bubs (yes, that’s what we called her) and my Uncle Clell, along with cousins Kathy and Buddy lived in White Oak, we always drove past Bloom’s Cut Rate when visiting. Mind you, we never stopped and actually went into Bloom’s, but I was always in awe. Huge stuffed animals and over-the-top kitschy statues lined the windows. At Christmas time, the place virtually pulsed with Christmas light and novelty decorations. Rumor had it that it was actually a “numbers joint”, what ever that means. My bucket list now officially contains “shop at Bloom’s Cut Rate” as an official “must do before I die” item.

As I closed in on Duquesne, I knew I had arrived once I rounded the bend and saw the familiar Duquesne–McKeesport Bridge. Just on the other side of Monongahela River was home, at last. I rushed across the bridge, past Center Street, and onward toward Duquesne’s City Center. Just around what are now the remnants of the Cochrandale projects, I remembered the row houses that used to line the street. Debbie Abbatangelo used to live in that area and I remember visiting and being up close and personal with the steel mills across the street.

 

I finally reached Library Place and turned left to head to my Aunt Peggy’s place for a visit. As I made that turn onto Library Place, old frustrations as well as fond memories came rushing back. The fond memory was of the Carnegie Library that once was majestically perched at the top of Library Place. The frustration I felt, was knowing that a gem and a friend of the Duquesne hunkys had needlessly been taken from us in 1968.

Duquesne’s Cultural Playground

The library was a magnificent building, built in 1904 by Andrew Carnegie to serve the employees of Carnegie Steel Company mill and their families. In the beginning, the company paid for the operation of the Carnegie Free Library of Duquesne. However, Andrew Carnegie sold the Carnegie Steel Company to J.P. Morgan of New York City, and the United States Steel Corporation was formed. To take care of the library in Duquesne as well as two others in the area, Mr. Carnegie endowed one million dollars to be shared among the three libraries. Obviously, the money ran out at some point along the way.

The Duquesne Library used to be our cultural playground, our educator, our spa, our trainer, our meeting ground, our playground and our right of passage. When I think back, so many components of my early years involved the library. Although I enjoyed reading, I was by no means a “bookworm.” However, I remember how joining the library for the first time was a revered and time honored tradition for  the students of Holy Name Grade School. I remember being marched over to the library when I think I was in 2nd grade. Sister Martin de Porres was our drum major as we marched up the front steps of the Carnegie to be initiated in the “system.”

The librarian wasn’t your prototypical stern, bespectacled, pencil totin’ and bun wearing individual. I remember how patient she was, not have to utter a single  “shhhhhhh!” Of course, the good Sister would never have let us forget it if we had not been perfect angels. We all patiently waited our turn to become official card carrying library members. Once that feat was accomplished, we were given a tour of the library, complete with an explanation of the Dewey Decimal System and the card file, which went completely over our heads! I think it was how the librarian and Sister got their kicks, by turning all of our excited faces into a “deer in headlights” group. We eventually were able to gather our three book limit and proceed to the desk to be stamped and checked out. What a thrill.

I remember the library portion of the Carnegie was to the left of the front entrance, in the building’s south wing. The front main entrance brought you into the lobby area of the theater. I recall that there was a grand staircase that led to the upper areas of the theater. The lobby area and every part of the building was laden with highly detailed oak columns, panels and trim. There were loads of huge windows and Carrera marble floors. Even the treads of the steps were marble. I didn’t realize it at the time, but apparently, Mr. Carnegie spared no expense when building a library for his employees. There was no detail overlooked and the building exuded elegance at every turn.

The children’s portion of the library was located behind the librarian’s desk complex. The room was huge and populated with very sturdy and very “sensible” oak tables and chairs. The bookcases that lined the walls were also made from the same sturdy oak and each book was perfectly placed on the shelves. There were large hanging pendant light fixtures throughout the room as well as large oak trimmed windows at the top of each 20 ft. wall. Being able to have enough light to see to read was never a problem.

My second “rite of passage” at the library was as eagerly anticipated as my initial joining of “the system.” I believe it was in 6th or 7th grade that students were initiated into adulthood by having full access to all parts of the library. This meant  that we were now able to cross the marbled hall that separated the children’s and adult’s library areas and be able to enter and use the adult area. The best part was that we could now have access to the open stacks at the very end of the library. There were three levels (I think) of books connected by curved iron stairs and the best part were the floors that were made of glass!! Mind you, it was opaque glass about the thickness of Mr. Magoo’s glasses, but none the less, it was WAY COOL!!! Ahhh, life was good.

Of course, the lending library wasn’t the only wonderful part of Duquesne’s Carnegie. The theater was the venue for many a little girl’s dreams. Pat’s Dance Studio in Duquesne Place held its annual Dance Review on stage at the Carnegie each year. I think I may have been in the theater only once or twice for my cousin Karla’s recitals, but I remember it being dark and ominous. I have tried to research if any people or shows of notoriety appeared there, but I had no luck. I guess Karla’s appearances MUST have been the most famous.

The north wing of the building housed the athletic portion of the Carnegie. I, along with at least 99% of Duquesne kids, learned to swim there. You had to descend into the lower portion of the building to reach the pool area. As soon as you started down the steps you would smell the chlorine and hear the splashing from swimmers and divers. From what I can recall, the pool was fairly large and the deep end was exactly that…. deep! There was a diving board at the deep end and I eventually, after considerable coaxing, became brave enough to try it out. I had swimming lessons every week and at first, I wasn’t that excited and rather apprehensive. Holding onto the rails at the edge and practicing kicking seemed boring to me. However, I soon felt right at home and “almost” never was accused of holding onto the side for too long.

Although I enjoyed swimming, I never got adept enough or brave enough to join the Carnegie’s swim club/team, The Dolphins. Being a Dolphin was considered a real status symbol around the pool you know. My cousin Paula was a Dolphin team member and was my swimming idol! I remember one part of my swimming experience at the library above all others. I recall the very first time I was able to roll up my wet bathing suit into my towel and carry my terrycloth jellyroll as a status symbol as I walked home. What can I say? Sometimes you’ve just got to celebrate those small successes!

Unfortunately, I was never able to make use of the second floor of the athletic wing. It contained a huge basketball court and exercise room. I remember seeing the parallel bars and the pummel horse, although I didn’t know what they were at the time. It was always bright and sunny up there, but when I was daring enough to climb the stairs and check it out, I  don’t  recall ever seeing the facilities being used. Not really the Gold’s Gym of yesteryear.

I’ve rambled on forever about the library, but I suppose that’s a good indication that it was a child’s wonderland. Even the handrails that were firmly cemented in place at the front and Kennedy Ave. entrances were fun. They were double barred and GREAT for safely sliding down the course of steps on. Who would have ever thought that my generation would be the last to enjoy the Carnegie. I still shake my head in disbelief whenever I pass by the former site of our cultural upbringing. Mr. Carnegie, thank you for the gift of a lifetime.

 

So, what did actually happen to the Duquesne Carnegie Free Library?

In the 1960s, the Duquesne library was sold to the school district for one dollar. Shortly after taking control of he Carnegie Free Library of Duquesne, the Duquesne City School District razed the structure, in June of 1968, to make-way for a school district annex (possibly a new gymnasium for the high school, located across the street). However, when the school district learned that the construction of a such an annex would result in a partial loss of state funding, the project was quickly dropped. Thirteen 1970s-era split-level houses now occupy the former library property, a cul-de-sac named “Library Place.”

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The CORE of the Duquesne Hunky Wedding

My daughter got married just a few short months ago. The event was spectacular and one that I’ll relive in my mind for years to come. Every part of the wedding was so well planned and executed at the hands of my daughter and my new son-in-law ( an honorary hunky I might add). The church, the ceremony, the music, the reception, the food, the fun! It was quite an affair!!

During my moments of reflection on the events of her wedding day, I cannot help but to think about the evolution of weddings in our family!! Although the event has become quite a bit more spectacular, the basic premise of a hunky wedding pretty much remains the same. Two people fall in love, get engaged, plan a wedding, go to the church for the wedding ceremony, drive off to the reception, drink, dance, eat, drink, dance, drink, dance, cut the cake, throw the flowers, toss the garter, dance, drink, do a bridal dance, drink, dance some more, bride and groom depart, guest remain to drink and dance until the reception hall staff begins tearing down the entire event and throws them out. That pretty much sums it up.

 However, “back in my day” there was one key element that defined the Duquesne Hunky wedding! The Kleenex Carnation!!! Now, you have to understand how my mind works when I decide to write about a subject on my blog. I actually do some (a little) research on the idea. I try to research the traditions, find supporting documentation, photos, etc. However, on the subject of the Kleenex carnation, I have come up virtually empty handed! There are no pictures of vintage cars laden with these flowers, no Wikipedia explanation….. nothing!! Nič! Ništa!

This has led me to the conclusion that we must have had a lock on this tradition. Although I know this isn’t the case, I’m exercising artistic privilege here. Here’s my theory:

The picture below is of a Slovakian wedding party circa 1910 taken in Czechoslovakia. Actually, my grandmother Anna is the young girl in the back row to the very right. I ask you to pay particular attention to the bride in the front row.  As you can see, she is laden with flowers not only in her hand, but around her neck, at her feet, draped over the flower girls and practically oozing out of every part of the photo. You’ll have to admit, flowers were an essential party of the hunky wedding, considering the guys were practically wearing bridal bouquets on their lapels!

OK, speed forward to Duquesne in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s. As the traditions evolved, flowers made a transition from bridal boas to auto garlands. Ergo, the Kleenex carnation!!  My theory might be a bit flawed, but it serves the purpose.

The creation of these Kleenex carnations was a social event in itself. There were no “Carnations R Us” stores or surrogate carnation makers to hire. The design and creation of these little gems was an intense labor of love among hunky family members. I recall being drafted to assist in making these as a young boy. I believe it was for my cousin Joanne’s wedding to Ken. We had gathered at my Aunt Rose and Uncle Sam’s second floor apartment on Auriles Street in Duquesne. We all sat huddled on their living room floor to begin the creative assembly line. Mr. Ford would have been proud. There were those that pulled the Kleenex from the box and then flattened them. Then a person who’s job was to fanfold each individual tissue, fold them in half, tie them, cut them and then pas them on to the “shaper.” The shaper was a sculptor of sorts. They pulled apart the individual plys without tearing them in order to create the carnation. This was a pivotal role, and one earned only after serving years in an apprenticeship capacity. As a novice, my job for Joanne’s wedding carnations was to cut bits of string that were used to tie the Kleenex together after the folding process. A humble beginning, but a necessary step.

In those days, Kleenex didn’t offer many options in color. There was the basic white, pink, yellow and powder blue. If a bride had chosen any other color for the carnations another step was added to the creation process. Fingernail polish! Yep! The creation team would manage to tip each flower with the color choice of the bride using small bottles of fingernail polish. With several bottles open and being used at the same time, I swear we all can pretty close to getting high from the fumes!!

All of our labor paid off on the wedding day. While the ceremony took place, a group of family members or close friends would apply the Kleenex carnations to the bridal car that was awaiting the new Mr. & Mrs. The thought of using tape on a car today would send anyone into a tailspin, but back then, it didn’t seem to be an issue. Perhaps it was all the lead in the paint that helped to keep it from being affected by the tape. By the time the bride and groom emerged from the church in a shower of rice (yep, real rice!), their car looked like a float ready to enter the Rose Bowl parade on New Year’s Day! One always hoped for sunny days and warm weather in order to pull off this transformation and usually, God provided. It must have been Hunky Luck! With horns blaring and family waving, the wedding party was on their way to the Hunky Wedding Reception, and that my friends is a WHOLE other story. So, tune in again.. there are more memories to come!

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The Hunky Village

This post has nothing to do with Duquesne this time. Well, at least not directly. It has more to do with the spirit of the people of Duquesne and the mindset of the hunkys that lived there. It is my feeble attempt to help you understand The Hunky Love Story.

Humans are a very “visual” bunch. We react immediately and keenly to images that we see; a reaction of horror to images of the World Trade Towers collapsing, of sadness when seeing a picture of a fallen soldier, of hope when looking at photos of our children in their college caps and gowns, and of love when we see those same children’s portraits neatly hanging on our family room walls.

I was checking out Facebook this morning and noticed that my cousin Ruth had posted some photos. Of course, being an inquisitive (a.k.a. nosey) person, I immediately checked them out. I came across a photo that to me exemplifies the very essence of the Hunky Heart. The photo is of two of my second cousins (Kim and Jenny), who are the daughters of two of my first cousins (Jeff and Chris) holding our newest family member, Logan, who is my third cousin.  I can see a shared joy in both Kim and Jenny’s eyes and heart. It’s that shared joy, the shared emotions, that is the core of the Hunky Heart.

In my case, and I suspect in the case of most of the good Catholic hunky families of Duquesne, I was part of a very large extended family. Between my mother’s Croatian side of the family and my father’s Slovak side, there were 16 aunts, 17 uncles and 34 first cousins back in the 1950’s. By the end of the 70’s, my family had escalated to over 140 people once you added in spouses of first cousins and the resulting second cousins.

Despite the increasing number of family members, and in spite of a family that is now separated by greater distances due to career moves, we all remain very close, if not physically, then in each other’s heart. Whenever able, we’ll travel the distances to celebrate changes that occur in our families; engagements, bridal showers, weddings, milestone birthdays, baby showers, christenings, first communions, graduations, reunions and any other happy occasion to get together to drink some I.C. (aka Iron City Beer) and eat some stuffed cabbage, kielbasa and perogies!

My mother died in 1963 when I was 12 years old. Since that time, all except 3 of my aunts and 1 uncle remain. Sadly, our family also came together to support each other and say “zbohom” or “zbogom” to those that shaped all of our lives collectively. I realize now that the old phrase “It takes a village to raise a child” was exemplified in our family. Although the exact origin of that phrase seems to be lost in time, it MUST have been a hunky that first uttered it! As with any event that touched all of our lives, these sad occasions would always end with the all of us enjoying a repast to remember and revitalize each other’s spirit. I call it a “Hunky Weep and Eat!” (In case you were wondering…. Yes, there was always stuffed cabbage, kielbasa and perogies!)

So this short post is just to thank all of those who have helped to make this Duquesne Hunky the person I am today. And by the way, Mr. Logan Shields, welcome to our world. We ALL love you and YOUR village people await!

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The Hunky Winter Olympics

After this past weekend’s snowfall, it made me smile to see a few parents and children making the best of the situation and trying their hand at sledding with their kids. The Eastern Shore doesn’t offer much in the way of slopes to sled on, so if I do see them attempting to sled it is usually on some highway embankment. Kinda sad if you ask me.

We never had a problem finding a place to sled in Duquesne. Hunkies are a resourceful bunch. I grew up at the base of St. Joseph’s Cemetery which is “technically” in West Mifflin Borough (what is a Borough anyway?) Nonetheless, I always thought of it as Duquesne since it bordered Mifflin St. One side of the street was Duquesne and the other side was West Mifflin, so it was close.

I bring up the cemetery for the fact that it was one of the best local places to sled.  We would wait with such anticipation hoping that the snow would be the good sledding snow and would ice-up nicely. There was a stretch of straight road that ran directly from the end of Thomas Street all the way to the top of the cemetery, nearly reaching homes on Crawford Ave (aka Pennsylvania in West Mifflin.) Back then, it seemed so-o-o-o long that they could have held the Olympic Luge event there. That is if we even knew what the luge was back then. This stretch of private road provided the ideal venue for sledding; nice and wide, a great incline, no traffic to speak of, and tons of snow. There were some negatives that we all were aware of however. Namely; drainage grates at a few spots in the middle of the road, a chain link fence and gate at the end of the slope at Thomas Street and then the fact that it emptied directly onto Thomas Street. These hazards and obstacles paled and became insignificant when compared to the thrill of the sport!

Whenever it snowed, we always knew when it was time to hit the slopes with our trusty Flexible Flyers. It was as if there was a mystical calling of the troops to assemble on the hill. It was not much unlike the Steven Spielberg movie “Close Encounters of the Third Kind” in which people were “drawn” toward some mountain for unknown reasons. Yeah, that was us! All of the gang would trudge up the hill to the top of St. Joe’s Cemetery pulling their sleds behind. The attached ropes were kinda stiff from the snow and freezing temperatures. They were usually pieces of Mom’s clothesline that had been adapted for the purpose of winter fun. One by one, we made our way up; Stevie Joe, Paulie, Oknats, and me.

Now, you have to understand that type of snow that had fallen determined how soon the fun began. If the snow was “heavy” with moisture, it might take a number of runs before the sleds could race down the hill without coming to a halt. If it was powdery, well that was only good if there was already an icy base present. Somehow or another, we made what ever had fallen work for us. Although we each had our own sled, part of the fun would be to sled in pairs or even three at a time. The additional weight gave the sled more momentum going down the hill. There were times when we would shift as a group a bit too much on the sled and we would all go tumbling into the sideline snow!

After the completion of each run down the hill, we would head back up with sleds in tow, ready for some more thrills. There was never a complaint about it being cold. I recall bright red cheeks, snotty noses and frozen gloves being standard equipment. Thank goodness for the long sleeves on our coats, what an ideal handkerchief for us!!

We would spend hours and hours on that hill. I often wonder if it is still put to the same use. During a recent visit to the area, I once again ascended “the hill.” This time I had the benefit of a vehicle for the climb. Once I reached the top and turned toward Thomas Street, let me tell you, the thrill wasn’t gone!!

Happy New Year to my fellow Hunkies, friends and readers!!

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The Christmas Party Continues

Well, its two days after Christmas, and my wife and I have managed to return to our home even though we had to wend our way back through the blizzard that hit the Eastern Shore of Maryland. I was very impressed with the civility of the drivers along the way. I’m sure that clenching the steering wheel with whitened knuckles did a lot to take the edge off of aggressive driving in horrible conditions.

I remember having to traverse the snow blanketed streets in Duquesne after a snow. The trip yesterday was a piece of cake by comparison. There was nothing quite as tricky as trying to safely traverse 2nd Street on a snowy night with cars parked on both sides of the street. Dad would be driving, Mom would be trying to wipe the windshield clear so my dad could see, and my brother and I would be in the back of our 1955 powder blue Hudson fighting over space infringements.  My dad always seemed to pick the most treacherous route to follow whenever it snowed. I swear that he always managed to include Center Street in his route! Although I always thought of him as “fearless”,  I am sure my mom would have described him in more “colorful” and less flattering terms!

It always seemed to snow on at least one of the days during the week following Christmas when I was growing up in Duquesne. However, no matter how severe the weather, we would always seem to be able to make the rounds of holiday visits to all of our aunt and uncles. The days when we visited each relative were cyclical. Aunt Mary and Uncle Lou were the day after Christmas, Uncle Tim and Aunt Jane’s house was always two days after Christmas and Mom and Dad were the hosts three days after Christmas. The visiting continued to Aunt Rose and Uncle Sam, Aunt Kay and Uncle Mike and would always culminate on New Year’s Eve at Aunt Clare and Uncle Hank’s during the first week. Visits always continued after New Years Day. Some days included two different households, one on Dad’s side of the family and one on Mom’s. Aunt Bubs and Uncle Clell were always doubled up with Aunt Helen M. and Uncle Gary’s gala, and Aunt Fran and Uncle Tom were on the same evening as Aunt Peg, Uncle Chin, Uncle Joe and Aunt Helen.

Each visit’s cadence of events was as if they had been taken directly from “The Hunky’s Book of Etiquette.” We would always arrive with some sort of gift in hand for the hosts. It was usually a bottle of whiskey and some sort of covered dish for the evening’s feast.

My dad and uncles would somehow act surprised when they opened the bottle and howl with delight at the prospect of partaking of its contents that evening. Mom and the aunts would first unload their food in the kitchen and then retreat to the living room to await the “whiskey sours” that were being prepared by the guys.

We kids would already be clustered around the tree checking out what our cousins had gotten for Christmas. We would always bring along one of our own Christmas toys to share while we played with theirs. There never seemed to be any fights that kids usually have. Things were pretty cool back then.  I think our parents were taking mental notes of which toys we played with so that they would know what might appeal to us for our birthday or some other special occasion. Crafty sort they were!!!

Once the ladies had their whisky sours in hand, the uncles would join all of us with shots and beers in hand, and a holiday toast would be made by the host. Glasses clinked, shots were downed, cocktails were sipped and the party began. There was always some type of holiday music playing in the background, probably Mantovani, Lawrence Welk or Henry Mancini. Everyone would sit and graciously “ooh” and “aww” as the hostess would show off all of the gifts that were received. Usually, by the time she was halfway through the presentation, the men would be so “antsy” that they would have already retired to the kitchen to continue “imbibing” and to begin taste testing that evening’s feast.

Ahh, THE FEAST! Let me just say this, the cabbage growers, kielbasa makers, walnut and poppyseed distributors, as well as the pig farmers HAD to have made their annual profits during Christmas from the sales of their products in Duquesne. The menu was as traditional as they came. Sliced ham, stuffed cabbage and kielbasa, potato salad, poppyseed and nut rolls, and a relish tray that always consisted of radishes, green onions, olives and pickles. The presentation might have been different from home to home, but the content never changed. Occasionally, some daring aunt would try to interject a new item, but the tried and true always prevailed. While the adults continued to enjoy the “spirits” of the season, we kids were using enjoying a bottle of Regent pop or Mission Grape or Orange. Remember how we would go with our dads to Green Valley Beer Distributors to get the refreshments each year???

After the events of the evening, we would all grab our coats and hats off of the bed they were piled on and head home. Somehow, my Dad seemed to drive better after his evening’s celebration. Also, after her whiskey sours, Mom was less “concerned” with the snow that had amassed during the party. And we kids, we would just sit back, and enjoy the countless strands of multicolored Christmas lights that glowed even more brightly against the newly fallen snow. Ahhhhh, the good life!

Those were the days my friends. How I miss them.

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This Hunky’s Christmas Wish

Well, it’s two days before Christmas and my wife and I are about to head west to spend Christmas with our youngest daughter. I was about to write about a particular Christmas Eve in Duquesne that I will never forget. In formulating what I was going to write in my head, I thought of a Christmas greeting that would tie in perfectly with that Christmas Eve. Enjoy….

Let me set the scene. It was Christmas Eve in Duquesne, and we had just received about 5 or 6 inches of snow. I recall driving down Kennedy Ave. toward midnight mass at Holy Name Church. Somewhere around the intersection of 2nd Street and Kennedy, I was struck by the contrast between the icy white snow that had fallen and the familiar orange glow that perpetually hovered above the mills. What some would think of as an eyesore, I thought it was so awesome. It reminded me of the “soup de jour” of Christmas decorations around that time. Homes  had electrified plastic candelabras with 5 or 7 lights representing orange colored flames. I swear every home had at least a few in their windows. For some reason, that was what crossed my mind that evening.

We parked for mass that evening across the street from Holy Name in what was my father’s auto service parking lot. Volk’s Sales and Service, on the corner of 1st and Kennedy. As we got out of the car, I remember thinking how quiet every thing seemed. Inspite of the fact that there were people all around entering the church, the snow seemed to cushion their voices and you could hear the distinct sound of footsteps in the snow.

It is only now that recall how peaceful that evening was. That is why I would like to send you the following greeting. It was written in 1513 by a Franciscan priest… Fra Giovanni. I hope you enjoy it.

I salute you.

I am your friend and my love for you goes deep.

There is nothing I can give you which you have not, but there is much, very much, that while I cannot give it, you can take.

No Heaven can come to us unless our hearts find rest in it today. Take Heaven!

No peace lies in the future which is not hidden in this present little instant. Take peace!

The gloom of the world is but a shadow. Behind it, yet within our reach, is joy.

There is radiance and glory in the darkness, could we but see; and to see, we have only to look. I beseech you to look.

Life is so generous a giver, but we, judging its gifts by their covering, cast them away as ugly or heavy or hard.

Remove the covering, and you will find beneath it a living splendor, woven of love, by wisdom, with power.

Welcome it, grasp it, and you touch the Angel’s hand that brings it to you.

Everything we call a trial, a sorrow, or a duty: believe me, that angel’s hand is there; the gift is there, and the wonder of an overshadowing Presence.

Our joys, too: be not content with them as joys, they too conceal diviner gifts.

Life is so full of meaning and of purpose,so full of beauty—beneath its covering—that you will find that earth but cloaks your heaven.

Courage, then to claim it:that is all!

But courage you have;and the knowledge that we are pilgrims together, wending through unknown country, home.

And so, at this Christmas time, I greet you; not quite as the world sends greetings, but with profound esteem, and with the prayer that for you, now and forever, the day breaks and the shadows flee away.

MERRY CHRISTMAS MY FRIENDS!!!!

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The ALL IMPORTANT Christmas List

I was checking out the Sunday paper and was amazed at the number of inserts that made the paper at least three times thicker than it actually was. It seemed that every store in the area was announcing that they were THE place to shop in these final days before Christmas. There were so many, that it would take anyone an entire day to read through them all.

I thought back to when I was just a little Duquesne Hunky, back to the time when the words “TEXT” and “FRIEND” were only nouns and NOT verbs. I don’t remember ever seeing so much “stuff” right before Christmas. I recall that we relied on a few toy catalogs that were sent directly to our homes right after Thanksgiving. Receiving them became an annual “event” in our house. My cousins, Bobbie and Joanne, would pick me up and make the viewing of these wondrous catalogs an exciting part of the Christmas season. I remember riding down to their home on Hamilton Ave. in Duquesne in their dad’s burnt orange ’54 Pontiac Chieftain. The memory is so vivid due to the lighted hood amber colored ornament of an Indian chief. Not exactly politically correct these days, is it? Nonetheless, seeing their car always meant there was an exciting day ahead.

I remember sitting at the large dining room table on Hamilton Ave. It was my Aunt Rose and Uncle Sam’s house. It used to be my grandfather’s before he had passed away. Bobbie and Joanne would usually sit on either side of me and we would look through every page of the catalogs. Once we were through reviewing them all, Aunt Rose would always have some kind of treat in store for me. It was usually a plate full of cookies and a large glass of milk. They didn’t call me cookie-face for nothing!

Once I had inhaled the home baked treats, Bobbie and Joanne assisted me in the most crucial task of the day, preparing MY wish list and letter to Santa! We would meticulously go through each page to come up with my first list. Bobbie and Joanne were both in high school around this time, so when we were looking through the catalog, we skipped over the boring toys like dolls and such. They were too old for such things and I could care less. When it came to the pages that peaked my interest, the patiently waited until I chose the exact toy I’d like Santa to bring me. By the end of the evening, they had helped me to narrow the list down from a zillion or more toys to about 2 or three “very favorites.” By the time we were finished, Bobbie would drive me home and all seemed right with the world. Bobbie or Joanne would say they would mail the letter for me, but of course, they would secretly had it over to my mom.

Things changed when toys began being advertised on TV in later years. What was once a rather simple task of picking two or three toys for my list got a LOT harder all of the sudden. The TV ads made everything look so tempting. I used to drive my mother crazy since I ended up changing my mind every time a new toy was being advertised. Would it be an Erector Set, or a Girder and Panel Building Set, Mr. Machine Mr. Potato Head…. who knew. I only remember that whenever Christmas morning rolled around, Santa ALWAYS seemed to make the right choices for me. What a wise old man….. he MUST have been a hunky!!

Enjoy some of these vintage toy commercials………

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The Sights and Sounds of Christmas

I know I am guilty of drifting from subject to subject at times, but I wanted to share with you, some vintage videos that immediately remind me of Christmastime in Duquesne. Granted, these are not specifically about Duquesne, but I just remember seeing these on our old Crosley TV set during the Christmas Season. Some are musical, one’s a commercial and one’s a Christmas Classic that you’ll want to share with your kids, grandkids or just enjoy yourself. I remember watching these as a kid and it wouldn’t be Christmas without them!  ENJOY!!!  I’ll be posting more as we get closer to the BIG day! Merry Christmas!

SUSIE SNOWFLAKE 

A VISIT FROM ST. NICK

NORELCO SANTA COMMERCIAL

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